A Dose of Happiness

A Dose of Happiness

Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Uh Oh

What happens when you combine a little boy who pulls up on everything...





And is teething pretty badly at the moment???




check out that drool!



You get this:




and this:
 


Looks like I'll be making this crib bumper I found on Pinterest today.

photo courtesy of janemarieblog.com

Monday, August 27, 2012

Back to School

No one in this house is going back to school today. It seems as though the rest of the world is, however, according to Facebook. And with the beginning of a new school year, comes the beginning of new emotions.

When my teacher friends went back to work last week, and when I received a few emails from former students and parents last week, I have to admit I felt a bundle of emotions I was not expecting. I felt a pang of sadness knowing I wouldn't be greeting those nervous bundles of energy on the first day of school. I teared up at the thought of my former students peeking in my old classroom looking for a familiar face, but I wouldn't be there. It took me by surprise, because staying at home with my baby has always been my plan. Like since I was a little girl and played house with all my dolls. I always knew I wanted to stay home, and I am beyond grateful and happy that I get to be here every day, but the back to school energy stirred up some sadness that instantly disappeared as soon as I remembered the report card stress, parent-teacher conferences, and testing, testing, testing.

Cam and I went to Target today (shocking, I know) and as we passed the Back to School section I watched as the little kids chose their folders and erasers and the moms checked each item off the list. I looked at my baby and I got a little choked up thinking that in just a couple of years, my little blue-eyed blondie is going to be sporting his own backpack and nervously greeting his own teacher.

I'm giddy and sad all at the same time right now. I can't wait to go school supply shopping again, yet I know the next time I do, I'll also have to send my little bunny away to be taken care of by someone else for a few hours. It's all just going too fast already.

To those of you with little babes starting school this week, and for those of you going back to the classroom to fill those minds and hearts with your words, happy new school year! Wishing you a smooth one full of more highs than lows and more smiles than tears.

Friday, August 24, 2012

Melt My Heart

These eyes.



This laugh.





This gigantic personality.






My cup runneth over.

Thursday, August 23, 2012

Baby Essentials Basket

Rick's colleague and friend who has been incredibly gracious to us with his legal services, recently had a baby girl. Rick asked me to put together a gift for him and his wife, and I obviously got giddy at the thought of buying ruffles and bows and pink tutus. Until I took a step back and remembered all the fluff we received as gifts when Cam was born and how most of that stuff never got worn or used because he lived in onesies and bibs for the first few months.

So, I decided to put together a basket full of our favorite baby things. I tried to think of things that you don't typically receive as gifts as well as some things that we couldn't have survived without.


Aiden and Anais Burpy Bibs: These things are the ONLY bibs we have that we use. They have a snap closure and can be used as burp cloths or bibs. They're thick and absorbent and the only bibs that kept Cam clean and dry during his pukey months.


Bath Thermometer: No one thinks of this one, but Rick and I have very different opinions about how hot a shower should be. I like it scalding; him not so much. So when it was time to give Cam his first bath, we didn't know whose hands would be best for testing the water... enter the thermometer. Plop it in the bath, no guess work, easy peasy.



MAM Glow in the dark pacifiers: Every baby prefers their own brand of pacifiers. For the first few months when Cam used a paci, he only could keep the MAM brand in his mouth. The reason I am a huge fan of the MAMs is because they also make a glow in the dark version of their pacis! Makes those 2 am searches for the "baby plug" a lot easier.



Zip front Sleep n Plays: One night of using snap pajamas was enough to convince us that until a baby sleeps through the night, he/she should only be wearing zipper jammies. Snapping pajamas with one eye open in the dark didn't work for this sista. We loved the Target brand and Gerber sleep n plays!




The list could go on. Seriously, I packed that basket full of stuff, but I'll spare you.


I also have my own opinions on some things that really aren't worth your time or effort. For those friends of mine who are about to embark on parenthood for the first time, here are my two unsolicited cents :)

Wipe Warmers/Bottle Warmers: Don't do it. My sister advised me of this and it very may well have been the best piece of unsolicited advice I received. Consider this -- what happens when you're out in a store or at a restaurant and it's time to feed or change your baby but he/she refuses to eat the room temperature bottle you have with you because it's not warmed up as he/she is used to? Cam has never had a warmed up bottle, and he's just fine. Tue, a cold wipe on a baby's tush may startle him/her at first, but just like anything else in life, they get used to it.

Crib Bumpers: It's just not worth it. Yes, they're adorable and you may think they'll save your baby's head from bumps and bruises, but the risks associated with suffocation and SIDS is just not worth it. I'm pretty sure no one dies from a bruise or a leg caught in a slat, but SIDS is too scary for me to mess around with. Chicago became the first city to ban the sale of crib bumpers this year, and it's just another reason I'm so proud to call this city my home. (I realize this one is controversial... just my opinion).

Sleep Sheep Noise Machine: This very popular item just isn't worth it in my opinion, and let me tell you why. First, it only runs for 45 minutes then turns off. You see, since we brought Cam home he's been sleeping with a noise machine on. It's become his signal for sleep, so when he stirs in the middle of the night, he goes back to sleep with that soothing sound. How is a sleep sheep that only plays for 45 minutes supposed to do that?? Second, it doesn't get very loud. Cam likes him some LOUD ocean wave sounds. Instead, we bought a noise machine from Target for $20 that has multiple settings, sounds, lights, etc. and stays on all night long. In fact, he's slept through fireworks, city noises, Maizey barking up a storm, and more because of this sweet piece of technology. Sheep's cute, but cute only gets you so far.

Worry: I swear, everything I worried about (Cam never sleeping in his crib, Cam never eating solid food, Cam never getting rid of the pacifier, etc.) was such a waste of time. I'm a worry wart as it is, but seriously it all works out because as these little humans get older and bigger, they are just able to handle more and adjust more easily to new situations. I'm holding all of you responsible for reminding me of this when Baby #2 arrives and I'm freaking out about something that seems so insurmountable at the time.

So there you have it: a great idea for a new baby gift and some advice you never asked for! 

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

On The Move!

Someone took two "steps" forward yesterday morning and today he's been a crawling machine! This kid is on the loose and it's so fun to watch him get to where he wants to be now. His facial expressions all day today have been ones that say, "Thank goodness! I can finally get where I want to go!!" It's adorable.




I can also see his two top teeth coming through, so it should be an interesting couple of days. I forsee lots of chasing, babyproofing, fussing and Ibuprofen in our future!


Monday, August 20, 2012

Birthday in Vegas

When I was pregnant I read a lot of books about what to do when the baby comes. Looking back on it now, I probably read too much, but what stuck out to me the most was that in each book, blog and website a common theme continued to pop up: A happy marriage makes for a happy baby. At the time, it seemed unessential and inapplicable to my situation. Rick and I were happy, connected and had a really good balance going on between our relationship, work and friends. 

But when Cam arrived, everything changed as everyone says it will. We barely had time to converse during the week, Rick was exhausted from working at the office and helping at home. I was exhausted physically and emotionally. The "Put Your Marriage First" chapters of all those books were starting to make sense. A few months in and once things settled down, we decided to make a conscience effort to put each other back at the top of the priority list, and I have to say it's made a huge impact. 

We get a babysitter often so we can go out, we spend time at home together, we've created a schedule for Cam that allows us to have adult time in the evenings, and we make an effort to have conversations that don't revolve around diapers and bottles. One of the promises we made to each other when we decided to start our family was that we wouldn't give up the things we enjoyed doing, we would just adjust our new "normal" to accommodate our hobbies. Traveling has always been one of our favorite things to do. We prefer the long weekend vacations visiting friends, relaxing on beaches and skiing in the mountains. Instead of saving up for one major trip each year, we have been known to jet out of town for the weekend several times a year. So, when thinking about how we were going to spend Rick's birthday, it became clear to us that we hadn't been on a vacation alone just the two of us in over a year and it was time to bite the bullet. 

Thankfully, we have an incredible assortment of caregivers who we feel more than comfortable leaving our little bunny with, and so Mimi and Poppy swooped in and held down the fort while Rick and I hopped on a plane and headed to one of Rick's favorite places -- Las Vegas.

Oh, what a vacation it was! We had the best three days filled with sleep, drink and food. We lounged at the pool, played a lot of Blackjack (and won big!), and spent time alone talking about politics, our plans for the future, and nothing at all.


We stayed at the Cosmopolitan hotel, and had a gorgeous view of Las Vegas Boulevard.



The hotel had the most magnificent chandeliers and light fixtures throughout the entire compound. One of the bars was named The Chandelier and featured three floors of dripping crystals. It was gorgeous.


We saw an amazing show on Friday night.


 Sadly, for me, not this one. 




Instead, we saw Absinthe. If you enjoy incredible acrobatics, vulgar humor and aren't offended by a large amount of swear words, you must see this show. We laughed so hard we were crying, and my jaw hurt by the end because it was practically on the floor throughout the entire display of strength and flexibility. 


This acrobat piled wooden chairs on top of each other and climbed upon them until he reached the ceiling!
We drank champagne and toasted to the birthday boy!

On Saturday evening, we dined at a great tapas place. We celebrated the birthday boy and feasted on some delicious fare. Oddly enough, one of our courses was delivered to us in a shoe. None of the other portions were served in any type of footwear, outerwear or casual wear, so we're really not sure why our croquetas came in leather and laces. But, they were still tasty!




It was a perfect retreat from the hustle and bustle of life and a much needed few days to focus on each other.

Putting your husband first, over your children, really seemed like a strange and backward philosophy to me. Your children are supposed to be what you live and breathe for, so inevitably they should be number one, right? After this weekend, and reflecting on the past nine months, it makes a lot more sense and it is so clear to me that a strong, happy relationship is essential to raising happy children. We are both more energetic, engaged and present than we've been in a while, and I know Cam can feel it. 

If you think about it, without your spouse, your children wouldn't exist. How could you not put that person on a pedestal for gifting you that?




Happy birthday, Ricky. Here's to a year full of health, happiness and lots of love!


Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Nine Month Stats

Pardon me for the delay in posting Cam's nine month stats... we've been busy playing with Mimi this week!

Cam and I went to see Dr. T on Monday for his nine month check up. She was so excited to see him so giggly and flirty. She gave him an A+ and said she was so glad to hear he was doing so great off all of his medications.

Cam officially weighs 22 lbs 10 oz (93%ile) and is 27 3/4 in long (25%ile). Of course, I immediately asked if I should be concerned that he's so chunky yet so short, and she said no. She assured me he was eating a proper amount and that as soon as he starts crawling and walking, he'll start to lean out. We shall see!

This little nugget is SOOO close to crawling. Today, he moved his back leg and front arm at the same time and then tummied-out. I have a feeling he's going to make a move this weekend while Mimi and Poppy are babysitting!

At Dr. T's office...

Mr. Chunker got a tattoo onesie from Mimi. Come on!



Monday, August 13, 2012

Organization Challenge: Week 1

Well, week one of my organizational challenge is complete. Let me tell y'all, I got a LOT done! Below is the short list of the main projects week one called for, though I followed the more detailed plan which involved getting rid of seven items each day and doing a fifteen minute cleaning of various rooms each day. I thought getting rid of seven items every day would be hard, but it was actually the easy part. I'm shocked at how much stuff I was able to part with, and Rick hasn't even complained yet about his missing things!

Day One's Seven 15 Items! I'm an overachiever, so what?!


Week 1
Day 1. Clean out your purse and/or diaper bag.
Day 2. Clean out your refrigerator. There’s a step-by-step guide for cleaning out your refrigerator here.
Day 3. Clean out your freezer. If you need step-by-step help, read this guide on How to Clean Out Your Freezer.
Day 4. Clean out underneath your beds and furniture. Remove clutter and trash and put it away or throw it away. Move the furniture (if possible) and vacuum underneath.
Day 5. Clean your couch. Remove your couch cushions and clean out any crumbs, toys, or other miscellaneous items you find. Use an attachment on your vacuum to vacuum the cushions, underneath the cushions, and all crevices of your furniture. Spot clean the fabric, if needed. 

I did a little extra and cleaned out some closets and drawers that had been giving me nightmares. I organized Cam's dresser and closet. I went through his clothes and reorganized the things I wanted to keep and donated two bags worth of the stuff that I could do without. The trunk of my car is now at capacity with a load of items I am bringing to a local women's shelter.

I also embarked on some DIY projects which I'll post about when I finally put the finishing touches on our living room and decide to reveal the hard work Rick put into building our IKEA items. 

Looking forward to this week's tasks and an upcoming, very much needed vacation this weekend without our little man. It will be the first time we've left the little nugget with someone for a whole weekend. I couldn't be more excited to relax and recharge with Rick, but I'm already missing my little chunky monkey and I haven't even left yet! 

Thursday, August 9, 2012

Nine Months!



Dear Campbell,

Today you are nine months old. That means you're three-fourths of the way through your first year. At this point, I'm really starting to feel like time is flying by too fast. You're changing so quickly and I'm often afraid to blink.

We will go to your doctor appointment next week to find out how much you weigh and how tall you are, but let me tell you -- you have grown! You are wearing size 12 month clothes (some 18 months too!) and size 3 diapers (size 4 at night). Your legs are essentially trunks and you love to stand as much as you can. You'd much rather stand than sit or try to crawl. You are still rocking on all fours, but you really haven't had any interest in crawling yet, and I'm okay with that! Though I hate to see you frustrated that you can't move quite yet, I'm enjoying your immobility because I know it won't last much longer. You are clapping now with both hands open and you are trying to pull up on things, too! We've had so much fun watching you reach all these fun milestones this month.

You are still eating like a champ! You have four bottles a day, and a breakfast, lunch and dinner in between. You still eat mostly purees, but you also like to eat banana, avocado, scrambled eggs and black beans. You love your Mum Mums and yogurt melts and you have a very serious relationship going on with water. You love to drink it from your sippy cup and from a regular glass (though you get yourself soaked when I let you do that!)

You are still sleeping great, too. You go to bed around 7 and wake up around 6. Some mornings you'll sleep later and sometimes you wake up at 5:30. It's always a fun game to make bets on how late you'll sleep in! You take two naps a day at 9:00 am and 1:30 pm. You've become an awesome napper, and I am so grateful. I'm able to get so much done during the day now, and you are such a happy bunny when you get some good rest.

Some things I don't want to forget about you right now...
  • The way you flap your arms up and down so fast when you get excited about something
  • The way you suck on your lips now because your teeth feel funny against your cheeks
  • Your bear hugs. You wrap your arms around me now and just squeeze. Love. 
  • How ticklish you are. Your dad can make you laugh so hard you can't breathe. It's hilarious.
  • Typically when you are done eating or drinking, you'll seal your lips tight or push the bottle away. Except at night. For your bedtime bottle, when you decide you are full and finished, instead of pushing the bottle away, you look over to the nightstand at the pile of books as if to say, "Okay, Mom, I'm ready for story time. Let's go!" 
  • You love musical instruments. You love banging the drums, the piano, shaking maracas and bells. You are even starting to imitate some of the rhythms that your teachers and I do. 
  • You are a babbling machine! You are discovering new sounds every day and you wake up now just ready to talk your way through the day. Lots of "ba, ga, dabee, ooo"
  • You're becoming very wary about being in other people's arms. I understand you want to be with Mommy and Daddy, but we are pushing you to try new things and explore your world with us right there to support you. 
  • You have two teeth! 
Bunny, I love you so much and have had such a fun month with you. Happy nine month day to you!

Love,
Mommy 




Wednesday, August 8, 2012

Pinterest Recipes Success

I've tried a few recipes lately that I thought I'd share because they turned out really well!

First, as a bribe and thank you to my husband for building a bookcase and couch for me last weekend, I made him these Oreo Cheesecake Cupcakes I found. Now, I'm not a huge cheesecake fan but I love me some Oreos. Rick picked this one for me to make and it was kind of an annoying recipe only because it made a TON of batter and I didn't end up using it all. If I were to make it again, I'd cut the recipe in half. Mine also took longer than 22 minutes to fully set in the oven.

picture and recipe courtesy of girlwhoateeverything.com


Ingredients:
42 Oreos, 30 left whole and 12 coarsely chopped
2 pounds (32 ounces) cream cheese, softened
1 cup granulated sugar
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
4 large eggs, lightly beaten
1 cup sour cream
pinch of salt

Instructions:
Preheat oven to 275°. Line standard muffin pans with liners. Place 1 whole cookie in the bottom of each liner.

Beat cream cheese at medium speed using an electric mixer. Gradually add the sugar, beating until combined. Beat in vanilla.

Drizzle in eggs, a bit at a time. Beat in sour cream and salt. Stir in chopped cookies by hand.

Divide batter evenly among cookie-lined cups, filling each almost to the top. Bake, rotating pan halfway through, until filling is set, about 22 minutes. Transfer to wire racks to cool completely. Refrigerate at least 4 hours (or up to overnight). Remove from tins just before serving. Best served really cold! You can garnish with fresh whipped cream and crumbled Oreos if desired. 


Rick and I also enjoyed a really yummy summer salad that I found on Pinterest. It's title was Power Salad and it did not dissapoint. Super easy, great ingredients and the dressing was light and simple. I was also able to use roasted corn that we had leftover from the grill the previous night which I think added a kick of flavor! While it isn't a low fat recipe due to the avocado, cheese and pine nuts, you could always swap out those ingredients to make it lower fat. Great recipe. 

picture and recipe courtesy of recipegirl.com
SALAD:
8 cups chopped spinach (1 bag)
1 cup halved cherry or pear tomatoes
1/2 cup corn (frozen, canned, or cut off the cob)
1 1/2 cups chopped cooked chicken
1 large avocado, sliced
1/3 cup crumbled goat or feta cheese
1/4 cup toasted pine nuts
DRESSING:
3 tablespoons white wine vinegar
2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil
1 tablespoon Dijon mustard
salt and freshly ground black pepper, to taste

Directions:

1. Place spinach in a large salad bowl. add remaining salad ingredients.
2. In a small bowl, whisk together the dressing ingredients. Pour over the salad and toss (a little at a time... as much dressing as you desire).


Tonight we're dining out with friends, but I'm hoping to muster the strength to try a few new recipes this weekend!

Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Sister Love




Sister love is a unique kind of love. It's the kind that reaches thousands of miles and wraps its arms around your sister friend to lift her up. It's the kind that sends a twinge to your heart when you have a feeling something's not right, and the kind of love that magically makes it all better. Sister love has no limits; it's strong. Despite how many clothes of yours get stolen or how many secrets of yours get spilled, sister love always creeps back in to your heart.

Today, sister love is spreading like wildfire.

Monday, August 6, 2012

All Boy

I've read a lot about babies and children. I learned a lot about gender roles through my psychology courses in college and how boys and girls learn differently when I was in grad school. I pride myself on knowing a lot about children and education, and have always believed that a lot of the gender differences we see between boys and girls was environmental. Until I had my own.

This kid is all boy. And I swear there is nothing we have done (that I can think of) to steer him in this direction. He has "girly" toys and his nursery basically looks like it should be for a princess. But this kid is boy. He is all over the place active, jumps and rolls and screams at the top of his lungs. He can also eat me under the table (and Momma here knows how to eat!) He's discovered his special parts down below and plays with them any chance he gets. Like ALL the time. I certainly think it's too early to tell what his hobbies or interest will be, but it's clear he's a physical kid with a mind like a boy.

He's already loving basketball.. and Michigan. Go Blue! (We have had NO influence over this... ha!)


Kid loves him some wheels. He loves to make them spin and watch them go round and round fast.



And, just like his daddy he likes to drive fast.




He also loves showing off his guns. He's just a typical dude.



And then there are his sweet baby moments that I know he'll grow out of soon once he realizes he truly is all boy. Like snuggling in my nook while we read together and giggling uncontrollably while I kiss him all over. And the cuddles. This kid loves his cuddles, and I'm inclined to say he's already a Mama's Boy.

Finally, thought I'd share his latest trick. Cam can officially clap on command. First, I was so proud that he was finally clapping with both hands open. Then I was so proud that he understood what the word clap means. I think he knows what a lot of words mean (bottle, bath, night-night) but this is the first word that he has shown he understands by performing a task. Such a proud mommy moment.

(I'm posting this video in YouTube and uploading it on here because I was told by many that they weren't able to see the video I posted last time. Let me know if you have trouble viewing this one too. Oh, and pardon my high pitched voice... I got excited.)








Sunday, August 5, 2012

Organization Challenge

I generally consider myself a clean and tidy person. My floors are always swept, my counters typically cleared. But, I'm starting to suffocate with clutter. I spent Friday's nap time organizing bathroom drawers, scrubbing grout with a toothbrush, and wiping down baseboards and I still felt like I hadn't accomplished much. After a family trip to IKEA yesterday and a re-haul of our family room, I'm feeling overwhelmed with clutter and an itch to Spring Fall Clean.

I try to de-clutter regularly, so you'd think I have a handle on it all, but somehow the papers and toys and clothes and junk just keeps piling up. (It could have something to do with the exorbitant amount of time I spend on Amazon, but that's for a different post!)

It's too overwhelming to tackle it all at once, but I saw this on Pinterest and loved what I read. It's basically a 4 week program to an organized home. I loved the daily projects and the checklist just seems so un-overwhelming. So, I'm starting tomorrow. Day 1 of my four weeks to a more organized home... stay tuned for updates on how it's going! I'm excited... are you!?!?


picture courtesy of moneysavingmom.com

Friday, August 3, 2012

Surviving Reflux

We have finally come out on the other side of GERD (Gastroesophageal Reflux Disease). Though it took a long nine months to finally say this, I feel like screaming from the top of the Willis Tower: Cam is officially off all meds, all special formula and is sleeping beautifully, laughing constantly and not spitting up any more!!

The medicine thing was actually a fluke... I actually forgot to give him his dose one day last week, and noticed he was fine. So, I took a leap of faith and haven't administered his Prevacid in a week and he's been sleeping better than ever, eating well and not puking. I couldn't be more thrilled! I wanted to celebrate this huge accomplishment and also document some of the things that carried us through this incredibly challenging period of Cam's life. Whether I help someone else out or use this as a reference for the next baby (who I pray will not suffer from the same pain), I hope writing down these things will not only benefit the future, but celebrate how far we have come!

  • In the beginning, keeping Cam upright after feedings (at least 30 minutes) was key. This meant that really he didn't get much tummy time, but he also didn't get a flat head because he was being held or "sitting" up most of the time. 
  • We spent a LOT of money on products that we thought would help Cam -- a wedge for the crib, thick burp cloths/bibs, various bottles/nipples, and more. The wedge was pretty useless (he slid off it all the time) but the Aiden and Anais burpy bibs were the best investment for a pukey kid.
  • We also tried many different sleeping arrangements since the kid could only sleep for 20 minutes without waking up from puking. He started off in the newborn bassinett on the Pack N Play which was slightly elevated. Once that small incline (maybe a 5% incline) wasn't enough, we put his bouncy chair in the Pack n Play and he slept there for several weeks. We finally got a couple hour stretches out of him in that thing. Life saver... until he was getting too big and I was too nervous to not be awake watching him.
  • Enter the Rock n Play. Oh, the Rock n Play. Best $50 we spent by far. Cam slept in this elevated bassinett for six months!! Once his reflux subsided a bit by six months, we moved him into his crib where he did fine. I was so afraid the transition would be brutal because the little babe had never slept flat on his back, but he LOVED spreading out in his crib. It was so easy, and my worrying was really just wasted time (as usual). 
  • Sitting up. Both our GI and Pediatritian said as soon as Cam starts sitting up on his own, his spit up would subside due to stronger stomach muscles. So I encouraged him to sit up way early. Luckily, he was a strong kid anyway, and by four months was really able to sit up well.
  • We went through two medications and three various formulas. We started with Axid which really didn't do anything for him (and we think actually caused some tummy pain for him) and then moved onto Prevacid. We started with the liquid suspension of Prevacid and then moved onto the solutabs. The solutabs seemed to work a bit better, though it was harder to get all the medication in his system since we had to dissolve it ourselves. We started with Enfamil Gentlease forumla, moved to Similac Sensitive and then finally settled on Nutramigen which he used for about three months. We are now back on Gentlease. 
  • I am pretty sure we wouldn't have survived without the help from our family, friends and amazing doctors. My mom stayed with us for 5 weeks in the beginning, then flew back on an instant's notice to help rock Cam, hold me as I cried, and came to countless doctor appointments with me. My sisters, friends and neighbors all brought food, spent hours on the phone with me detailing what worked in the past for them, and mostly just listened to me. And our doctors, who never rolled their eyes when they saw me in the office for the third time in a week. They sat as long as I needed and answered my questions. They held Cam when he wouldn't stop crying and I just needed a break. I am so thankful.
I'd also like to offer a small piece of advice to anyone else going through this that I did not receive from anyone. When getting ready for a new baby, do not put in new carpets. Luckily, when Rick and I debated about replacing our carpets a year ago, we decided to wait on it because Cam has successfully ruined all our carpets with stains from his "juices." So in a way, I have my little bunny to thank for starting the carpet shopping process now because neither Rick or I can stand looking at ours any longer.

I really think the best thing for Cam was growing up. The bigger he got and stronger he became, the more comfortable he seemed to be. People told me all along it would get better at 2 months, then 4 months, 6 months, etc. Everyone had their own opinion on when I would see the light, and I spent many weeks counting down until that next time period when I would feel free from the reflux hell. By about 4 months old, I realized he'd overcome this on his own timeline and it was a slow process, but he did it. I'm so happy that he's happy. I'm so proud of us for making it through without going completely insane. I'm so thankful he was our first baby because I can't imagine doing this with another child to tend to.

I feel like we've won the gold medal in Reflux Survival, but instead of a heavy medal strapped around our necks, we get to walk away with this as our beloved prize: